1. I don’t feel like telling you about what I did today.”
This essentially means that you’re with a guy who doesn’t feel it important to keep you in the loop with regards to the happenings in his life. He would much rather just keep you in the dark. He is okay with having you act as a mere spectator to his life.

2. “I don’t see why your problems have to be my problems too.”
Selfishness is a huge sign that a guy’s love for you is nonexistent. A man who is really in love with you would always want to do anything possible to make sure that you have an easy and comfortable life. IF he shows a reluctance to help you work through your problems, he isn’t really in love.

3. “Be with someone else if you don’t like what you see.”
You really know that something is wrong if your man is actually giving you the option to just be with someone else instead. This is an indicator that he is unwilling to change for you and that he would rather you just end up being in a relationship with another guy who would be willing to do your bidding.

4.  “Just do whatever you want to do.”
A man who doesn’t really express a desire to give his input to you is a man who isn’t in love with you. Ideally, your guy would always want to be taking an active role in the life that you live. He wouldn’t be so content with just playing the role of a spectator who doesn’t care much about what you do with your life.

5. “You’re reading too much into this.”
If your man tells you this, then you’re with someone who is okay with just dismissing your thoughts and opinions. A man who is truly in love with you would never tell you that you are just overthinking something. He would make a genuine effort to try and understand where you’re coming from.